Feng Shui for Lovers

With Valentine’s Day around the corner, Feng Shui might be the perfect solution to kick-start some romance and ignite your love-life.

The actual use of the word ‘Feng Shui’ is believed to have first appeared in the 4th century in Guo Po’s Book of Burial. In its earliest form, the philosophy was confined to burial tombs before expanding into the homes of the living. The literal translation of the term ‘Feng Shui’ is ‘wind and water’.

What is Feng Shui?

AstroYogi.com defines Feng Shui as “the art of placing buildings and objects in relation to energy flows, to heighten positive energies and minimize the negative ones.” It is a Chinese philosophy and has gained worldwide popularity as a means of positively influencing well-being through the adaptation of one’s physical environment. Feng Shui revolves around the emphasis of the vital Chi energy that is believed to drive life.

With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, does Feng Shui have anything to offer those in, or looking for love?

Feng Shui Bedroom Tips

Bedrooms are at the core of love-relationships and those in love or looking for it, can begin by adopting a few basic tips to improve upon the levels of positive Chi-energy in these rooms.

The Bed. Beds should not be placed where its sides are against the wall. They should be placed where there is equal space on either side. It is recommended that side-tables are placed on either side at the head of the bed. The head of the bed should have a solid wall behind it. The bedroom should be kept clean and clear of any clutter. Ensure that your head does not come under a beam or cabinet while you sleep. If a bathroom adjoins a bedroom, it should be clean and the door must remain closed at all times. It does not matter if one’s head faces a bathroom wall.

Water. It is recommended that bedrooms are free of water though a glass of it is generally permissible.

Images. If wall paintings, photo-frames, etc, are used to beautify your bedroom, they must not depict loneliness, isolation, sorrow, etc, as these feelings eat at the positive energy and build on negativity. It is recommended to use images that depict love and romance. Hanging these images on the wall directly opposite the foot of the bed is ideal.

Take Out the Past. Those having been in failed relationships in the past must ensure that there are no traces of them in the bedroom. Diaries, albums, pictures, items that remind you of a bad relationship should be tossed away.

Brightness. The bedroom should be free of dark and murky corners. It is recommended that weak bulbs, snuffed-out candles, etc are removed. Lighting two red candles in the right-hand corner of the room helps attract love.

Check the Doors. Worn, squeaky, damaged doors must be repaired or replaced.

Colors. Pink is widely recommended for a bedroom that employs Feng Shui philosophy. Apart from being the color of relationships, it is believed to combine the passion of red and the metal element of white. Other colors recommended are peach, light blue and light green.

Work with Pairs. Pairing items and objects in the bedroom can stoke the flames of love. Those in search of love may place two pillows side by side, a pair of Mandarin ducks as show-pieces, a pair of candlesticks if any and wall-pictures or picture frames should have two people in them.

Feng Shui is a very deep Chinese philosophy and re-decorating or renovating a room to conform to its guidelines can be very extensive. Numerous commercial ventures, professional consultation services and Feng Shui merchandise shops have sprung up around the philosophy of Feng Shui. Here’s wishing you a very happy Valentine’s Day as you take the first basic steps in jump-starting a flame of romance in your bedroom with these tips!

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